Tuesday 13 May 2014
DO LOOKS MATTER IN A RELATIONSHIP?
Undoubtedly, it is one of
the most enticing and contemplated question. Everybody, especially teenagers,
are longing to know whether looks are the by-all and end-all things while going
for a relationship. So, if you are one of those curious people then you have
come to the right place for the answer, my friend.
 |
| Ouch! That didn't go well |
I wouldn’t beat around the
bush to tell you the truth, as that is time-wasting. The ugly truth is
that looks do matter in a relationship. Well, not just in a relationship, but
in almost everything in life. Be it an interview, an out-of-nowhere crush on
somebody or what not? Our very first impression on someone comes from the way
they look. It is the soul parameter through which we judge EVERYTHING
about the person in front, whether he is knowledgeable, talented, a tharki or
whatever. Looks answer everything. That’s what majority of the people staunchly
believe in.
 |
| Seriously! -_- |
With that thing in mind,
the question rises whether a relationship is solely dependent on the looks of 2
people? And as they age, does the bond between the couples get infirm? There
are a lot of such questions in queue.
Starting with the 1st question,
are relationships only dependent on appearance? Clearly, the answer is NO.
Looks do play a part, a nominal one, but there are other way too important
things that bond 2 people together. Those things include understanding,
compatibility, mutual respect and a heart that beats for one another
irrespective of their mien. These things stand much above “appearance” and
shall not be overlooked while choosing a life partner because looks can be deceptive,
but nature can’t.
The second question answers
itself now. With age, bond gets stronger instead of getting weak. This is how
it works! I don’t know how, because I’m still in my early 20s.
Another question that might be crossing-through people’s mind, ‘I was so loyal, sweet, good-at-heart,
then why did my partner leave me?’ You must have heard that
people make mistakes, a hell lot of mistakes which they regret some or the
other day. Consider it to be the reason, it will help and heel. That’s all
I can comment about it.
‘I’m not good-looking; does this mean I have no
chance of being in a relationship?’
Stop thinking like that
because that will make you unnecessarily depressed. You are way better than
many good-looking people out there, believe it. The only thing you need to have
is patience. Be yourself and do what you like. The universe will conspire to
make the most appropriate partner reach you.
 |
| Cent-percent true |
At last, your nature and
character is what that matters the most in life. And that should be the
prime reason for other people falling in love with you. Rest everything is
secondary, including looks. So, don’t be forlorn if you are not alluring.
Are relationships worth it?
5 reasons why you are still single?
Saturday 10 May 2014
BHAI KA PYAAR
‘Bhai’
has different forms in our everyday life. For few of us, he might be a real
brother, for others, he might be a friend, a friend-of-friend or whatever. But,
the thing to pay attention on is the way he showers his warmth on you. The way
he guides and helps you at difficult times.
 |
| Sing it loud! :P |
He
is somebody to whom you call late at night to pick you up from a place where
the alcohol has taken complete control over your body. After receiving the
phone and listening to your trumped-up story, he might abuse you and ask to fudge
yourself (you better know what he says, don’t you?), but the fact is that he shows
up after your consistent whimpers and a promise of bearing his beer money.
He
is somebody to whom you call for help when other guys are about to beat your
ass out. Doesn’t matter whether he is slim enough to give complex to top actresses
or Arnold Schwarzenegger alike; you remember him, as you know he will save you,
somehow. He is your superman, or at least the person who would be there on the
adjacent bed in the hospital.
He
is the person who would repeatedly remind you of NOT running behind ‘LADKI, BUS
and TRAIN’, but despite of all his sayings, you ditch him NUMEROUS times for COUNTLESS
number of girls. And when you return as the prodigal friend, he is there to pat
your back and console you saying, ‘Koi nhi bhai, aur bandiyan milengi’.
However, he doesn’t forget to kick your shameless ass for ditching him back
then.
 |
| NO OFFENCE, GIRLS! :p |
These
were just the trailers, picture bohot badi hai that you are also aware of now,
I guess. You know, he is your best man, your side-kick (according to you), your washroom companion,
your ‘Jim Carrey’ from ‘Dumb & Dumber’ and what not? He is there for you
24*7; not literally, though. Still, he shows up at the time of need or to mock
at you (when you want it the least).
In
short, he is present with you all the time and that is the reason he is valued
less. However, when he will leave you after a certain stage in life, his memories
are the ones that would make you cry the most. So, go on and tell your ‘bhai’
how much he means to you over a chai-sutta hang-out. He might pump whether you
are drunk or something, but the fact is that, deep down inside, he will savour
it. Perhaps, he might pass it off saying; ‘Rulayega kya?’ but he will never
forget it. He will relish it for years but won’t let you know (that’s the way
guys are).
You may also like: WHY THIS KOLAVERI DI?
Thursday 1 May 2014
5 Things You Shouldn’t Say To A Girl
One
thing which is sure to happen, apart from rising of the sun and the death of a
human, is a sudden fight with your girlfriend.
Many
of us have faced this situation at least once in our lives. One moment you are
having a conversation and the other moment you say something that totally changes
the scenario. You don’t realize but it just happens at the blink of an eye. And
by the time you notice that something has gone wrong, the die has been cast;
she is upset. You are doomed.
There
are certain things (read: a lot of things) men should never say to their women.
You are lucky to have come across this article which will save you from those conversational
land mines while having a talk with your girl. Below are the lifesaver points:
“What’s up with your
hair?”
“What did you say?” (In Arnab Goswami voice)
Are
you crazy to point out this thing? Alright, her hair is a little messy today,
so what? You want to live on this planet, right? So, don’t bring it up. Just
keep it to yourself. Remember, her hair is “just perfect” and “suits” her
totally. For girls, hair isn’t just hair. (That’s all I know)
“Yeah, she’s hot”
Many
a times, chances are she beguile you in with an innocent question, like, “Do
you think she’s cute?” shrugging her shoulders like it wouldn't matter either
way. But don’t be fooled; it’s a trap. You must lie quickly. Whether it’s a
girl in a magazine, a waitress, a Facebook friend’s of friend or whoever, the
answer is always NO. In fact, you win extra credits for casually finding fault
in her the closer you look. Watch your girlfriend light up as you say, “Is it
me, or is her nose a bit spooky?”
“My ex used to...”
While
talking to your girlfriend, never ever bring up anything with ‘my ex’. You
might face serious charges for this crime. There are a lot of things which
belong to the category of ‘inside thoughts’, this is one of them.
“I love you”
Until
and unless you are totally sure and confident that you love your girl, don’t
utter those three “magical” words. Reason being, girls can actually tell
whether somebody is genuinely saying it or not. So, keep up the magical words
with yourself Mr. Potter until you are totally sure about it. This will save
you from getting slapped in the middle of a public place.
“Are you really going
to eat all that?”
Alright
big boy! Enough said. One more word and you would be down on the ground in pain trying
to figure out the point of impact. Remember, your girl is light as a feather
and she can eat whatever and how much she wants. No questions shall be raised.
You may also like: 6 TIPS TO HELP YOU MOVE ON AFTER A BREAK-UP
